Ladies can i have your opinion !! can you fall in love with the same guy twice?

Well, just answering your question and not reading your explanation, I can say the answer is both "yes" and "no," and here's why: You can fall in love with a person, and then something happens, something circumstantial (like you find out there're not so cool), so you feel disillusioned, and you fall out of love. In this case, you would have fallen in love with a sort of behavior or status (popularity would be an example) then the actual person. So, short and simple: you can fall in and out of love many, many times based on a person's behavior, but if it's the real deal, you fall in love just once, and no matter what sh** comes your way, you stay in love (and in my opinion that is pretty rare, but my husband and I have stayed in love with each other, and we have put up with enormous amounts of each other's sh**)